There is a special something that everyone wants; “Self-confidence”. Confidence is defined as “trust in” and “reliance upon”. When you have self-confidence, you trust and rely upon yourself. You know you have the ability to become, achieve and acquire whatever you want. That knowledge radiates through you, giving you an attractiveness that far exceeds perfect features and careful grooming. With self-confidence, you know you are in charge of your own life.
You are able to rely on your own choices, decisions and actions. This knowledge reduces the tension and anxiety that is so detrimental to a youthful, healthy appearance. Since self-confidence propels you to go and attain your cherished goals, you can create life’s freedom that you dream about. Self confidence has a powerful connection with Universal Love, thus enhancing your experiences of a joyful life.
Self Confidence gives you power. The implicit point of self confidence is self esteem, an appreciation for yourself and a good image. These positive states of mind are very powerful. When you have self-confidence you know that regardless of your current circumstances be it financially, career-wise or even in relationships, you have the power to change whatever is necessary for your benefit.
Thoughts are the result of beliefs at the very core of the beliefs that shapes your life is your health, career, relationships, and finances. Do you love yourself? Do you trust yourself? Do you believe in yourself? Do you feel good about yourself? Do you treat yourself kindly? Do you enjoy being you? Some would say “of course” to those questions. Upon further examination, you will find that it is a rare person who is really pleased with him or herself.
Usually you are your own worst critics. You can become demanding of perfection, resentful of what you consider to be a failure, and un-accepting of your human flaws and errs. The aberrant behavior you see is the result of worries. Next it creates a feeling of no matter what you do it isn’t enough; then the attitude becomes “why bother”.
It is important to be the master of your own mind; it is the way to master your life. Each one of you live in a universe that high in thought powered energy, therefore it is extremely important to watch what you think. Everything on the physical, mental and spiritual level – including the air you breathe, physical objects, plant life, the animal kingdom plus your actions, thoughts, feelings and ideas – are all composed of the same energy.
You live in a unified field of energy and every speck of this energy stimulates a vibration that you can consciously understand. Everyone and everything in the universe comes from “one consciousness”. It makes no difference what name you call this creative Power, It is all there and you are part of it. Everything about you is energy, including your thoughts and beliefs. One of the most potent forms of energy on earth is focused thoughts.
Laws of Energy are the Universal Laws of Life; the Power that created the universe operates in accordance with this law of energy. Since these are also the universal, spiritual and mental laws that govern your life, it is imperative that you become focused creators of your life. Energy is in constant motion (vibration) and is electro-magnetic. Everything in the universe continuously vibrates, each at its own specific rate of vibration. All energy is electro-magnetic; vibrations that are in harmony with each other attract each other, while vibrations that are not in harmony repel each other.
It is a must for you to meditate and focus on how you can change your life the way you want it to be. When you project your vibrations; this is your “energy field”, your vibrations radiate from your mind, your conscious and subconscious beliefs, thoughts and feelings. As your energy field radiates into the unified energy field, you are in a vibrational harmony. The energy fields you attract come in the form of people, conditions, things, events and circumstances that become your life. To create the energy field you want, you must learn to master your mind.
Your conscious mind is the part of you that “thinks” or thinks it thinks, chooses, and makes decisions. In reality, however, it is the subconscious mind that directs your conscious mind. Your subconscious is “programmed”, much like a computer is programmed, and just as programming in a computer determines outcomes, so does programming in the subconscious. This programming determines the outcomes of your life.
Most of what we call thought are really automatic responses coming from subconscious beliefs (programs). These beliefs “cause” you to think the way you do. If you are programmed for failure, you will have thoughts that lead to failure, until your programming changes. Or if you believe that you will be happy or famous it will happen. You have to hold fast to your dreams, to attract the physical equivalent of any positive beliefs and thoughts.
If you do not have the inner belief that requires self-confidence, you can reprogram your mental computer. Replace beliefs of failure and limitation, of fear and frustration, with beliefs of success and abundance, with faith and enthusiasm. As the vibrations created by these positive thoughts and feelings radiate into the unified field of energy, you not only become more confident, you are in harmony with the “good” things of life. From that state of mind, be focused on what you want (and not focused on fear that you won’t get it), the universe will cause an attraction, like a magnet of energy, of people, conditions, things, situations, circumstances and events that can fulfill your desires.
The reprogramming process requires dedication to repeating and reinforcing affirmations (positive statements) and visualizations (mental images) depicting what you want. Daily, at least in the morning and evening, “see”, “feel” and verbalize the experience your desire. Until your subconscious is reprogrammed, your old thoughts will continue to vibrate. However, you don’t have to allow programming from the past to determine your future. Reprogramming takes time, Creation takes place in each moment. Be aware of and choose your thoughts.
Decide what you want to think. Decide to think and tell yourself (and the universe): “I deserve the best”, “I am the best”, “I believe in myself”, “I can do it”, “and I am meant to succeed”. As you continue to reprogram yourself, the new thoughts will become as automatic as the old ones had been. This thought process take time to create new mental habits and patterns, it is the only way change becomes possible. Accept your “self”‘; this work will give you results. That is how self-confidence works.
The reprogramming process requires dedication to repeating and reinforcing affirmations (positive statements) and visualizations (mental images) depicting what you want. Daily, at least in the morning and evening, “see”, “feel” and verbalize the experience your desire. Until your subconscious is reprogrammed, your old thoughts will continue to vibrate.
However, you don’t have to allow programming from the past to determine your future. Reprogramming takes time, Creation takes place in each moment. Be aware of and choose your thoughts. Decide what you want to think. Decide to think and tell yourself (and the universe): “I deserve the best”, “I am the best”, “I believe in myself”, “I can do it”, “and I am meant to succeed”. As you continue to reprogram yourself, the new thoughts will become as automatic as the old ones had been. This thought process take time to create new mental habits and patterns, it is the only way change becomes possible. Accept your “self”‘; this work will give you results. That is how self-confidence works.
Meditation for The Special You
- Take a deep breath and while exhaling stretch your body slowly
- Visualize Pink and Blue flowing from your toes to the top of your head
- Visualize entering into your subconscious room
- Your subconscious room is filled with data tapes that you have stored with this and other life times
- Ask you self confidence if there is anything that makes it feel uncomfortable
- Pay attention to your thoughts.
- If you feel uncomfortable about any data in your room, put those thoughts in a gold balloon
- When you are completed allow the gold balloon with the unhappy thoughts flow out into the universe
- The universe will flow your unbalanced negative thoughts into a new balance and harmony that will burst with brilliant loving colors
- Say to yourself I am the greatest, I believe in myself, I can do whatever my heart’s desire is, I will succeed. My self confidence energy will show me a new energized energy
“The Creator is energy of love and light therefore you were created with that energy. Your soul knows of this great love. Your emotion helps the heart to express and flow its love while your mind works to put forth where it needs to go. So each and every soul is filled with love. It works constantly to know and flow. It’s all in the power of love.”
By Maggy Conn
Shirley J Smith 