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The Art of Balancing Your Love

“The Art of Balancing Your Love”

By Messenger
The Maha Chohan

Spiritual Love is an awareness that you are all ONE and that the nature of source is always Love. When you love anyone and everyone it is a love characterized by detachments of drama and the absence of lower emotions. This love is your source of Universal Love. It is then you can surrender and love what is and see the perfection in everything including the so-called atrocities of humanity. Spiritual Love comes from your connection with the Universal Love Source through the embodiment of your Higher Self.

Human love (intimate relationships) is characterized by the attraction of opposites magnetism. It is based on separation with the underlying desire to become one through the act of love. This dynamic energy is what spawn’s feelings of passion, emotions and attachment. Love can sometimes become a challenge. You can experience anger and strong reactions of defense and protection if someone threatens the safety of your beloved.

When you are in a relationship you must balance how you experience and express these types of love. If you are always in a state of spiritual love you would fail to emotionally connect with your partners and enjoy a healthy attachment. You would appear to distant or too holy and inhuman, often avoiding feelings of pain or sadness. On the other hand, if you are in a state of human love then you can get too emotional and over experience pain, drama, suffering and attachment. People who are constantly having strong emotional or mental re-actions have not cultivated enough the skill of detachment that comes with spiritual love and self-mastery.

Balance these aspects of your self and you will enjoy a very fulfilling rich and empowering relationship. And if you are constantly struggling when it comes to relationships them it might be very wise to cut all cords of attachments between you and the other person.

Love is the motivation behind many of your dreams, actions and thoughts. People quit jobs, stay in unhealthy situations, all because they want love and they think their actions will increase it. Yet you often have many rules and ideas about love that stop you from feeling love for yourself or others.

One way to expand your capacity for real love in your life is to look at your inner rules honestly. What rules or requirements do you have around love? Look at what works and see which one’s place limits on your capacity to give or receive love. Be sure and see the rules for what they really are. Rules around love are well-intentioned but they are usually stifling. Divine love has no bounds and conditions, it is human love that is filled with bounds and conditions. You want others to love you as you are, but many usually put so many conditions on that love.

It is time to step out from the rules and move into Spiritual love. Love without any rules, conditions, limitations or neediness is spiritual love. Human love or “Hollywood versions of love” like to say I will love you if you show up on time, take the trash out, dress a certain way, etc. It is a fleeting situation and will come and go depending on what people are doing and thinking. It gets mixed up with a lot of nonsense. Spiritual Love on the other hand is pure and unveiled. It is always present, regardless of whether you are in a relationship. It is in your heart.

Meditation To Assist:

  1. Take a deep breath through your nose and exhale out your mouth.
  2. Visualize pink and blue flowing inside your body from your toes to the top of your head.
  3. Visualize your heart beating Pink and Blue colors. Now feel your Pink and Blue colors flow throughout your entire body.
  4. Feel your colors pulsate in your hands, your feet and then throughout your entire body.
  5. You are relaxed as you tune into your happy vibrating body. It’s a joyful feeling within and around you.
  6. Now Affirm:
    I release all ideas and beliefs of lack in my life.
    I now open myself to receive my divine love abundance.
    I choose and accept an abundance of love prosperity into my life now.
    I am prosperous in good health. I am prosperous in love.
    I am prosperous in wealth. I am worthy to receive all these.
  7. As I advance confidently in the direction of my dreams, and endeavors to live the life which I imagine, I will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.
  8. I am free, I am happy with my love abundance and my love flows freely out to others.

Lots of Love,
Shirley

“There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved”
By George Sand